If your New Year’s commitment is to look for a girlfriend this year, then you’re in luck because this is what you should be reading! Now, before choosing just about anyone, remember to pick someone out who suits you the best.
Someone you get along with on a fundamental level, and someone who has a basic level of empathy too. Only then you’ll be able to have a wholesome relationship if that’s what you’re looking for this year.
Therefore, here is some inside scoop if you’re looking for a girlfriend for a meaningful relationship
Make Sure She’s Kind
While most people, especially women are kind, there are a few who show apathy in the wrong places. Now she may not feel for a certain cause, so there’s no point judging her on that. But if her overall kindness quotient is low, then trust me you can do without her. By kindness I mean, see how she talks to the support staff around her or how she treats animals in general. If you sense some bad news there, move on!
Make Sure She’s Emotionally Intelligent
Women intuitively have higher EQs than men, but there are times when they fail there too. Why do you need a woman with a higher EQ? Well, according to studies, men reach their level of emotional intelligence at a later stage in life, before women do.
It’s what helps balance a relationship in the first place. With both of your EQs being low, the relationship can go through some major issues and eventually end too. A woman who recognizes her emotional capacity and challenges it, for it to grow every day, is someone with a higher EQ and that’s always a good thing.
Make Sure She’s Worldly
No, we don’t mean well-traveled as such, but someone open to opportunities and different perspectives. Someone who enjoys adventure and the thirst to explore the unknown. The only reason this kind of girl is in our recommendation is that she’ll be knowledgeable since she loves doing her research, she’ll be fun, and will be open to just about anything.
Make Sure She’s Passionate About At Least One Thing
The sub-heading gives away what I am trying to say. Girls who’re hardly passionate about anything usually tend to get boring and don’t have a drive. Eventually, your dreams will become her dreams because she lacks passion and the ability to dream big.
She doesn’t have to be passionate about everything, but anything is good. It could be her love for something or something she is currently pursuing. And once you meet her, you’ll find out in a jiffy what she’s passionate about, if at all.
Make Sure She Loves Her Friends
This could go either way, both for men and for women. Someone who loves their friends and is loved by their friends, s generally a grounded person. If she talks about her friends often or likes hanging out with them a lot, then she is someone who is a nurturer and will do anything to keep them happy.
This also reflects on how she handles and manages her relationships. If she never gives up on friendships, then she will never give up on relationships either. An added advantage is knowing for a fact her friends love and dote on her. If that’s the case, you have yourself one of the nicest girls around.
So, don’t sweat it. Finding the right person takes some time but when you do find them, all the waiting and searching is worth it. So let this year be your year and look for someone who has at least 3 characteristics listed above!